Safety, built in.

We believe dating should feel as safe as calling a rideshare. Every feature we build starts with one question: does this make people safer?

Mandatory ID verification

Every user must verify their identity with a government-issued ID before they can match with anyone. No exceptions. This ensures every profile represents a real, verified person.

Live location sharing

Share your real-time location with a trusted contact during any date. They can follow along and know exactly where you are. You control when it starts and stops.

Mid-date check-ins

Discreet check-in prompts during your date. One tap to confirm you're safe. If you don't respond, your trusted contact is alerted automatically.

Emergency SOS

One tap to alert your trusted contact and share your location in an emergency. We also provide guidance for contacting local emergency services (911).

Video first dates

Not ready to meet in person? Every match includes a video date option. Meet face-to-face from the comfort of your own space before committing to an IRL date.

Curated public venues

First dates are at vetted public locations — restaurants, cafes, parks. We never suggest private venues for first meetings.

All profiles are real people.

courtme.ai does not use AI-generated fake profiles, chatbots pretending to be users, or any deceptive profiles. Courtney, our AI matchmaker, helps you find compatible matches — but every profile you see is a real, ID-verified person. We are transparent about our use of AI: it powers matching and recommendations, not fake interactions.

Zero tolerance enforcement

We enforce strict community standards. The following result in immediate, permanent bans:

Catfishing or fake photos

Harassment of any kind

Repeated no-shows

Spam or commercial solicitation

Threatening or abusive behavior

Bypassing safety features

Compensated companionship

Underage users

Ban decisions are made at our sole discretion. We retain records of banned users to prevent re-registration.

Age requirement

courtme.ai is exclusively for adults aged 18 and older. We enforce this through:

Age declaration during signup (minimum age 18 enforced)
Mandatory government-issued ID verification confirming date of birth
Immediate account removal if a user is found to be under 18

Data and privacy

Your safety data is handled with care:

ID verification data is processed by a secure third-party provider and never shared with other users
Location sharing data is only visible to contacts you designate and is not stored after dates
We never sell personal data to advertisers or third parties
You can request deletion of your data at any time

For full details, see our Privacy Policy.

Reporting and support

If you experience any safety concerns, harassment, or inappropriate behavior:

In an emergency, always call 911 first.
Use the in-app SOS button during any date
Report users directly through the app — reports are reviewed within 24 hours
Email us at hello@courtme.ai for any safety concern

Our commitment

Safety isn't a feature we added — it's the foundation we built on. We designed courtme.ai because we believe dating apps can and should do better. Every decision we make, from mandatory ID verification to our business model (we earn when you go on great dates, not when you keep swiping), is aligned with keeping you safe and getting you real results.

We're committed to continuously improving our safety features as we grow. If you have suggestions for how we can make dating safer, we want to hear from you: hello@courtme.ai.